October 6th 2008
Resolution is Non-Rational
The problem does not have to be solved for the conflict to be resolved.
`Hogwash!’ you exclaim. ‘That doesn’t make sense!’ Let’s take a closer look.
Many people find it surprising that the path to harmony winds through a jungle where anger, resentment and similar ‘negative’ feelings flourish. You have noticed that this does not discourage the expression of these feelings — it permits their ventilation. This contradicts popular admonitions to ‘put on a happy face’ and ‘be logical’. Continue Reading »