April 5th 2008
Badmouthing Cannot Always Be Ignored
One line of management thinking has it that all employees can be won over eventually with the right word or the right action. And, in many cases, that will indeed turn out to be true. There are times, however, when a lot of real turmoil is going on just beneath the apparently calm surface.
Take this situation one Boston manager finds herself in. “I have one employee who acts very friendly to my face,” she writes, “but other people tell me that he is always trying to undermine what I say or do. For example, he’ll say things like, ‘She should never have handled it that way,’ or ‘I don’t think she should have given him that bonus.’ This goes on not only with the employees in my department, but also with people in management. How can I confront this individual without betraying others?” Continue Reading »